Everyday you say many words and have many thoughts. Many feelings arises in you when you speak these words or think of these thoughts. Some of these spoken words and thoughts eventually become part of you as you keep on repeating them day after day. All your words and thoughts become an affirmation. An affirmation is actually anything you say or think.
Why Affirmation Does Not Work For You?
There are a few reasons why affirmation does not work for you :
Affirm that it does not work : Some people says that "affirmations don’t ever work for me". This sentence is also an affirmation. Therefore affirmation works by not working for you.
Proportion of positive and negative affirmations daily : Many people say 5 minutes of positive affirmations every morning and then think negatively or complaint for the next 23 hours and 55 minutes. Do you think these people will get any result from the the 5 minutes of positive affirmation? Don’t forget that a complaint is also a affirmation.
You don’t want the change : Perhaps you don’t want what you are affirming. You may affirm to be rich but on the other hand you hate rich people. You think that rich people are evil and snobbish people. How can you become a person you hate by getting rich. To clear your negative feelings about what you want, you need to use EFT. Think of the advantages and disadvantages, likes and dislikes of what you want and use EFT to tap away the negative feelings. Many times, the main reason you are not getting what you want is that you subconsciously dislike the result.
If affirmation does not work for you, it is just that you don’t know how to use them correctly.
How To Get Affirmation To Work For You?
It is not your fault that you think negatively. Nobody taught you how to speak and think positively. When you grow up, everyone around you also thinks and speaks negatively.
If you drink poison more than 50% of the time, will you be cured? What happens if you stop drinking poison and start detox your body? Slowly and steadily you will get cured.
The same applies to affirmation. To get affirmations to work for you, you need to put in effort to achieve more than 50% of time, thinking and speaking positively. The more often you speak and think positively, the faster you get your mind fully detox.
Say your affirmation in the morning and before you go to bed. Put the affirmation in your wallet and on your desk. Say your affirmation as many times as you can through out the day.
What Are The Affirmations You Can Use?
Everyday in every way, I am getting better, better and better.
I am a lucky person and I am feeling lucky today.
Money flows to me in every way and I deserved it.
I treasure every good that life offers me and I am getting more and more of them everyday.
Broomsticks are often used to chase off unwelcome visitors. Whoever is hit by a broomstick, is said to have bad luck.
However broomsticks are used by Gypsies to ward off witches and other form of evil. They place the broomstick, forming the shape of a cross at any entrance. By doing so, no form of evil can enter through the entrance.
The Chinese also used broomstick to sweep away any suspicious evil object on the floor. Any evil objects casted by the asia black magic, can be swept away using a old broomstick. During first day of Chinese New Year, all Chinese refuse to use any broomstick in their house so as not to sweep away the good luck for the new year.
When you are a 5 year old kid, you are happy with everything you have. When people give you a sweet, you beam with such happiness. You do not grumble about the favor of the sweet. You do not complain about only having one sweet. You basically enjoy it.
At 5 years old, you are contented and live fully in present. You have no desire. You have no preference. Basically you are contented with whatever is happening.
As we grow, we have more and more desires. We feel everything must happen in accordance to our wishes. We feel bad when events appear differently from what we hope for.
Maybe for one minute, learn to be contented. Be contented that you have a desk even though your desk is untidy. Be contented with your looks and everything about you for this is what is given to you in this life. Be contented with your kids as it is better to have your kids than none at all. Just for a minute, don’t compare or judge whatever you have. Just for one minute feel contented.
A key is considered as one of the oldest symbol for luck. It is also considered to be one of the most powerful luck symbol.
The Greeks and Romans believe a key symbolize the unlocking the door through which stands between their prayer and their god. They like to offer silver keys because silver is considered as a sacred metal to their goddess Diana, who is the guardian of all mothers-to-be and the protector to all doorways.
Japanese like to tie 3 keys together and wear them as a charm. It is considered as a powerful charm that can unlock any door leading to health, wealth and love.
In eastern Erope, the Gypsies hang a key with a metal ring upside down over their bed. This charm will ensure whoever sleeping on that bed to have a good night sleep without any nightmares.
Nowadays, all modern men and women carry a dozen of keys with them everyday. No wonder, we can unlock all the doors in our lives to better health, greater wealth and more love.
Everyone of us has a humble servant. This humble servant serves us loyally, always seeking to make us happy and safe. He/she protects us from harm and brings us anything that will make us happy. He/She works 24 hours a day and 7 days a week.
This humble servant is known as our subconscious mind.
Our subconscious mind is very loyal and will not forsake us in times of needs. It ensure that our heart pumps every second and other parts of our body works properly throughout the day. When there is a danger, it help us to react instantly without the need to think.
We Attract What We Are Happy About
This humble servant always seek to provide us with more of what we feel genuinely happy about. This servant wants us to be happy. We must be truly and totally happy about something, then our faithful servant will bring them to us.
We Get What We Are Comfortable With
Our humble servant always ensure that we are safe and comfortable. Look at the pleasures that you do most often. Many of them are done because you are comfortable and feel safe doing them. You watch alot of T.V. because you feel comfortable watching them. If you are comfortable watching movies, you watch many of them. If you are comfortable with some friends, you go out often with them. Your servant is here to bring you all these pleasures that are comfortable and safe.
Why We Don’t Get Things We Think We Will Be Happy With?
There are many things you desire. You think that all these things will make you very happy. A million dollars. A new car. A big house. A new job.
Your humble servant may not bring these items to you because you are not comfortable or feel insecure in owning them.
You may want riches but you fear of being robbed. You may not feel comfortable with people asking you for money when you are rich. You may hate rich people and therefore your servant don’t want you to become a person you would hate.
You may want a new job but you may feel insecure moving into a new environment and serving a new boss.
You may want a new car or a big house but you may feel uncomfortable doing the washing and cleaning. You may have negative feeling about the loans you will be supporting. Then again, you may hate people driving big sports car or live in big mansion and therefore your servant prevents you from becoming someone you hate.
Your servant will not make you insecure or unhappy by realising your dream. When there is conflict in what you want, the servant will protect you by not realizing your dream.
Try looking at a hundred thousand or a million dollar note. If you are given so much money, how will you truly feel? Quiet down and ask yourself what you truly feel. Some people will feel that they don’t deserve it while other will feel that such thing will never happen to them. In short, many people are not comfortable with that large amount of money.
Your Mind Can Be A Problem
Our subconscious mind never thinks and only wanted to ensure that we are happy and safe. This part of us is a zombie.
The main problem with this servant is that it does not think. When we laugh at other people’s misfortune, it bring us the same misfortune. When we are happy, creating suffering for our enemies, we get the same kind of suffering in the future. This is called retribution. It is not the fault of the servant. The servant just bring us things that we are happy about.
How To Correctly Use This Servant?
This servant is powerful and loyal. The only problem is that it cannot think. As long as we think correctly for it, it will serve us well. This is how we can get result we desire.
Rejoice in the good fortune of others: When we can be truly and toally happy in celebrating the good fortune of others, this servant will bring us this good fortune because it wants us to be happy. If you want to be rich, don’t feel angry or hatre towards those people driving sports cars or living in big houses. Instead, try to feel how great will it be for you to be in their place. Feel happy that these people can enjoy such good life and one day, you too will be able to do so.
Feel sad for someone’s misfortune: Our servant wants us to be happy and not sad. Being sad for someone else will make it remove such misfortune from our future life. If you cannot feel sad for your enemy’s misfortune, at least try to feel neutral.
Widen your comfort zone : Our servant wants us to be safe. Anything that make us insecure will be removed by it. Try to expand your comfort zone to experience things you wanted. If you want to be rich, read magazines created for the rich. Visit places that the rich will visit. Expand your friends to include the rich. As long as you are comfortable with being rich, you will attract wealth into your life.
Do you know that earrings are invented to guard the ears from the evil eye and other dangers lurking in the air?
For many generations, sailors have been wearing earrings as amulets for protection against drowning. In ancient times, the earrings can guard the sailors from the greatest danger of all: being lost at sea. Therefore sailors are among the first men to wear earring without attracting negative attention from other people.
There is a great teacher beside every of us. He has a vast knowledge and know the rules of every area. You name it, he knows it. The great teacher is life. Life is always teaching us about something. It is up to you whether you choose to learn or just ignore.
When you had friends, life teach you about friendship and betrayal. When you had money, life teach you pleasure and pain. When you gain something, life teaches you what is called lost.
Life is a knowledgeable teacher, who is willing to share his knowledge with you. Although life is a knowledgeable teacher, life is a very cruel teacher. He will teach you the same lesson again and again until you learn it by heart. If you fail a test without studying for the test, life will make sure you continue to fail again without studying. If you get rob because you are out till very late at night, life will teach you the same lesson as long as you stay out late. If you get burnt because you are careless with fire, you can be sure that life will get you burnt the next time you are careless.
All great men are great because they learn the lessons from life that other people choose to ignore. Some example of these great men are Newton, Leonardo Da Vinci and Albert Einstein. You, too can be great by being a attentive student of this great teacher called life.