Sometimes while you may want to be helpful and kind by giving advice, but the taker of your advice is offend by what you say. While other people are fine, saying the same advice, you got yourself hostile response when you say the same thing.
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You speak like a Light Anti-Armor Weapon. When you shot out words, you don’t know who you have offended. Your intention may be kind. Your timing is inappropriate. Therefore the same words that other people may use, create enemity towards you.
Advice: Think twice before you speak. Words spoken, cannot be taken back.
You speak like an artillery. You like to attack any issues that you do not agree. There is no holding back to the scale you attack. The fire power is strong. Whatever you say, is straight to the point and hit the nail on the head. Accuracy is your strength.
Advice: Don’t make enemies out of friends. Leave some pride for others.
You are like a machine gun. Your fire power is not strong but you always attack the critical point. This make your opponents speechless. Your strength is that you always ask until you get to the bottom of things.
Advice: Speak only 70% of what you want to say. Be careful when you are speaking ill of others.
You are like a wedding popper. You always keep your opinions to yourself and you won’t force people to agree to your opinions.
Advice: Your character give warm to people around you.